Saturday, July 22, 2006

Relationships

Does anyone really know what makes a relationship work? You hear everything from opposites attract to find your soulmate in order to make your life complete. Immediately people think they are lacking something in their own life that they need to find the missing puzzle piece. Doesn't this make people feel that they have spent their life up until the point when they meet their "soulmate" wandering aimlessly as an incomplete person.

The only way that you can find someone with whom to spend the rest of your life with, is to become complete on your own. Discover your passions, your dislikes, what makes you happy on a rainy, muggy day. You need to know yourself completely before you can bring someone else into your sphere and merge your lives.

True love is similiar to the feeling you get when you come home after a long journey. You climb into bed, the sheets are cool, the air is perfect and you feel the comfort and safety of being somewhere you know you belong. Love is finding your home and comfort in another persons arms. No matter where you are, if you are with them, you are home.

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